Showing posts with label food. Show all posts
Showing posts with label food. Show all posts

Thursday, August 29, 2013

So-called Diet Desserts

I kind of feel like the Food Police talking about this, but I wonder if others are coming across the same thing of people being oblivious to what they are really eating.
 
 


Last evening my sister sent me the picture above with the text, "Diet cheesecake...can you believe it?"

The first thing I thought was, "No, I don't believe it." I asked her what was in it and she said FF cottage cheese, RF cream cheese, RF sour cream, FF caramel sauce on top. I asked her what the brown stuff was on top and she said that it was 2 Health Bars chopped up!!!  HOLY HELL!  How can someone really believe that this is "diet" food and that it's good for you??  She also told me that she made "diet" pimento cheese spread.  How can you make pimento cheese diet? It's cheese and mayo and you spread it on bread. Ummm, no.

Keep in mind that my sister is about 80 pounds overweight, and her husband, although slim, has heart disease and is pre-diabetic. He is the kind of man that wants a hearty full course meal, every meal, of meat and potatoes and a new dessert every day. She likes to cook and is always scouring recipe books for new things to make. She is another that sticks her nose up at primal eating, because she doesn't understand it, has no desire to understand it, and because she eats things that are too complicated. By that I mean that she wants to eat casseroles and foods with too many ingredients and then complains that it's too hard to count calories. I tried to tell her that she's making it too hard. She needs to eat whole foods. A lean protein, lots of vegetables and a little fruit and nuts. Too boring for her, I guess. Well, I'd like to eat the casseroles and sauces and desserts, too, but I know that I cannot eat that way and be healthy and expect any kind of weight loss. I also cannot eat that way without cravings and overeating.

In my opinion, I need to stay away from all "makeover" desserts (and foods for that matter) and stick with whole foods. You're only fooling yourself with the makeovers and I believe that you'll still get cravings from those foods, because they still contain sugar and fat (I looked up the cheesecake recipe out of curiosity and it has 15 grams of fat per slice!  Told you I felt like the Food Police.)

A while back, and only for a minute, I contemplated making desserts/pancakes out of the "fake" flours (almond, coconut, buckwheat) but I decided that would put me on a slippery slope to allowing more and more of the things that I should be staying away from that could cause cravings, and therefore, cause binging. Maybe one day I'll be able to eat those foods, but not now.

I've gotten off track a little about people not realizing what they are actually eating and how so-called "diet" desserts, that for the most part, still aren't good for you.  I think a lot of people, my sister for one, are in denial of how bad the food that she's eating really is because:  1) she still wants to be able to eat it and believe/tell herself it's healthy while still indulging   2) she likes to cook, and especially bake, and she can if she still has this way of thinking  3) she wants to "take care of" her family and show her love with food.

I think that for the most part it's denial.  There may be some people out there who can indulge in these types of foods and still remain slim and healthy but I think they're most likely people who do not have food addictions.

Of course, this is only my opinion, what are your thoughts on so-called "makeover, diet" desserts/foods?











Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Random Thoughts

Today's post is full of randomness.
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I'm down another half pound this morning and I have a size XL shirt on today - not my usual XXL.   :D
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I got my hair cut the other day, it is a little short but I think it'll be alright. I have no choice, do I? This past weekend I bought a new purse, 6 new shirts and some new jewelry. I'm in desperate need of clothes and this was my non-food treat for losing 20 pounds.
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The other day when I went to the doctor for my sinuses I was sitting in the exam room waiting for the doctor to come in. I could hear the nurses out in the hallway talking. Apparently someone had brought donuts in and one of the nurses was reaching for another one. Here is the exchange that I heard between the nurses:

"Don't do it! You're emotional eating."

"I want one. Life is to short not to eat what you want."

"But you don't really want it."

"I could leave here today and get hit by a truck and die and then I'd regret not eating it and I'm pretty sure there are no donuts in heaven."

That was all I heard. I just sat in the exam room shaking my head. I'm pretty sure that the second nurse was doing the same thing; she "get's" it. I'm so glad that I'm one of the people that finally get's it. It is so freeing to know that food doesn't have that control over me anymore and that I'm making the right choices. In my opinion, life is too short to not live your very best life.
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My goal for this month is to amp up my exercise. I may start my Slim in 6 program again, that way I will have the structure that I need to stick to my program like I did with the squat challenge.
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I need to come up with different things to eat and different ways to prepare the usual things. I think I'll search recipes on the net today. I'm getting tired of eggs for breakfast and some days I just can't bear to eat them so I'll have cheese, yogurt, nuts or fruit. Still, I need more variety.
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I'm taking vacation days this Friday and Monday for a mini staycation. Friday is the bonus pay and this weekend is the shopping trip that I've been looking forward to. DD and I are going to a giant mall two hours away and are staying at a hotel. I'm so excited!!! I'm in need of a change of scenery and a little retail therapy. I'm going to try not to buy any much stuff for the house. I need to focus on making me feel good and look better, which will keep me on track. (Look good, feel good, keep going.) In the past I'd try to go shopping for stuff for me and it's so hard to find nice stuff that fits right when you're fat so I would always end up buying something for the house instead. Now I've pretty much got the house the way I want it, so unless I come across something I can't live without, this trip is going to be about me. :D
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Enough randomness for now.  Make it a great day!